“Is there a true love at the bar?”
“Are you like a computer nerd living behind the fantasy and very fond of online love?” Probably someone popped up this question to you. Then you realize this quite gets you that we are introducing you a new dating site. Feel exciting, you quickly type in “www.bar-love-link.com” in the URL path, you wait for a while… with your heart beating faster and immediately you are directed to… a “can not find the server” page! Disappointed… how could that happen? You did try once again and again with hope, but still nothing. Okay, don’t be panic… just stay calm and we’re about to get you the reason in a minute.
First we must admit that it wasn’t that easy to write a relationship column, but after having been writing this for months, we discovered that there are so many, many things to write about. It is just all fun to talk about it. So right then, one idea that accidentally clicked through and flew into my brain, of course it’s related to this month’s theme “Entertainment”... is all about bar – a get-together place for nightlife lovers - we believe this is another fun issue you all would love to read about. Thus we brought this topic “BAR-LOVE-LINKS” up for you guys, beloved readers who love to hang out and hook up at night to let go all pressure you had in a day, now let’s take out what in the blanket for the time being. For now, this is not just like a thailovelinks.com site you may feel familiar with. But isn’t that fun since we did GET you at the beginning, right?
Some of you might experience this kind of relationships from a bar yourself since the first day you set one foot down in Bangkok. Or some love to go to the bar at dark three times a week but with different reasons. Relax and fun. Hang out and get drunk. Parties. Dating or just look around. Business-related… and so on. Somehow, whatever reason is, you may once hit your target who might be “THE ONE” for you after the midnight has gone. Then you may think who is truly “THE ONE”? Guys, don’t get confused… we are now talking partly of Mr./Ms. Right and partly of Mr./Ms. Fun. Concentrate your mind and ponder through the answer yourself of “What kind of relationships are you truly looking for (especially from the bar)?” Once you get to the bar, there are actually two types of relationships you can hunt for, either a true love (only a few) or a one-night stand (more expected) in different terms of fun and seriousness – the rule of “a true love” is much applied to the term of seriousness while “a one-night stand” is more like for fun and nothing to be serious about. There’s nothing much to say about these as it is a truth.
Then the next question practically dropped in line is, “Is there a true love at the bar (or just a one-night stand)?” Would it be possible if both be like 2-in-1 as shampoo and conditioner in the same bottle? Okay, you go to the bar and meet some OH! HOT and SEXY chicks/guys who suddenly turn you on or even burn your heart. You bring in all flirting technique and score the point (s) throughout the night, right? You wake up in the next morning and discover how good he/she was in bed, later on you find them gorgeous, and you can never ever get them out of your mind. Finally you two are head over heel in love. But well so this may seem idealistic for you all, especially playboys/playgirls, and we bet this can happen for 1 out of 100 in real life. Perhaps it can, with just a few couples who finally say “We do” and their life will never be the same again.
Listen, guys… before you get the answer for yourself, let’s go through seven main (true) principles of fun nightlife lovers, and then look at yourself whether these are truly you - a young tiger (both sexes) who loves to hunt for victims and beat the game…
P1 - Fun in and Serious out. Some of my girlfriends who love playing around always say that “Just for fun, nothing serious”. That’s probably the quote for all folks at the bar where they come for having fun drinking, dancing, chatting, screaming, and getting crazy like sometimes going naked (like the American “Girl Gone Wild” show). Some may be luckier than others in that they are fortunate to hook up with SO HOT chicks or guys. But whether who go in first, all they need to remember is to simply let all the “FUN” part in and throw the “SERIOUS” part out. IF you switch these two parts and accept jealousy in, we can tell that you’ll really get a problem… give a credit to the first start of a true love though.
P2 – Sweet talk. This is quite players’ characters. They love HONEY and SUGAR. We believe they drink honey instead of water… perhaps 8 glasses of honey a day. Isn’t that true, guys? You are all talkative, but in a sweet and slow way mingled with the concept of “slow but sure”, and do not get too rush like you drop a bomb and blow out your chance away. So you apply this sweet tactic until you’re sure that that HOT one was fell into your honey trap. On the other hand, when you run to some girl/guy and you feel awkward and nervous talking to him or her every time you meet them, it’s then time to check up your heart rate and true feeling.
P3 – Anyone’s invited. “Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?” Who cares this yes/no question? Just let it go. It is a flirting game, and anyone’s invited. Playboys or playgirls can pick up whoever they meet at the bar each night. Each night, each day comes with each new faces… is excitedly a new challenge. Forget about staying with the same person every day and night. That’s not real them.
P4 – Secret truth. This is the rule that most of playboys and playgirls always follow. Truth of their love life is never revealed; it was a secret when they met a new hot fire who already melted their heart… to death. Then a new game just started! You scored! But after THE NIGHT, it is your choice to decide whether or not to tell your secret. But be aware of the outcome when he/she throws a heavy punch (like of Mike Tyson’s) to your faces who accidentally found out your cheating on them. Especially guys, watch out those fists. It hurts. We warn you!
P5 – Ignore commitment. Agree to just have a short, good time together? Yes? Then forget “commitment” or “promise”. It is called a fair game if this rule is much followed by both of you. Commitment is sometimes good but not applied much with love pickup from the bar. If one of you declares to let commitment in, check out your heart and feeling. So it will be like 2-in-1 after all.
P6 – Winner or loser. All players love to beat a game. Like in a soccer or golf game or else, there are always a winner and a loser. No one wants to fail or lose. And the game of love is also the one of risk for being a winner or a loser. Once they find someone very pretty, suave and handsome, they will just mask Mel Gibson’s Braveheart face and jump in the battle field ready to fight (for someone’s heart). Somehow, if they lose and can really admit that, and let her/him go with a winner… that means you have sporting spirit that reminds us on one motto… “Love is also to give”.
P7 – Protection – Let’s me tell you this a bit. This is a BIG and HUGE problem if you miss this rule. Really, it will be a great burden unexpectedly coming into your life, and this will stop you from anything you love to do or anywhere you want to go (unless you don’t want to have kids of your own).
So, apart from these above principles, what’s next is to examine your heart and soul and search for your true feeling… if you are quite a playboy/playgirl, these exactly complete you as a typical player, don’t they? Provided you find some rules missing out of a real you,… correct… you might be fortunate to face a true love, no matter you want it or not, but probably from the bottom of your heart, you know you want to find it one day so badly (don’t you)?
And one another thing you must realize is that this one-night stand type won’t last forever when you get older. It is said that players will stop playing and fooling after discovering their true love and getting married. Or another word, if it is the right time for them, destiny will lead them to a true love and what they can follow is to simply go and feel by heart.
What’s next then? Do you think if there is really a true love at the bar? We don’t try to offend all players as nothing wrong being one of them. We just would like you all to consider what you want out of life… what kind of relationships are you looking for? And whatever to be, accept it as this love thing (both types) is a nature of human beings who need to love and be loved, so everything just goes by a natural instinct. Most importantly, let it in if you consider it right.
Nonetheless, we believe this story will enlighten your heart and soul to take a serious thought on a relationship you are associating with, especially the one from the bar.
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