Monday, April 28, 2008

Honeymoon Time

“How to keep passion and relationships alive”

Speaking of this month’s theme of “travel”, what’s truly popped up for our relationship column is a sweet honey + moon, and you can absorb the romance of its “HONEYMOON” while this is a part of your marriage/relationships life. Actually you can taste the sweet of “honey”, I mean a real taste (How do you like sweet? Is it too sweet for you?), but you can’t certainly taste or chew on “moon” (while it is shinning at night in the far horizon). What you can do with it is just feel and look at its beauty (In fact, the real moon is ugly). Then under the moonlight in the middle of the night, the romance is just around you. It might be sad for those who are single, if they probably have to imagine beyond and beyond of all romance with someone (like dreaming), but do not go deeply too sad while romance and sweet can finally occur WHEN they actually found “THE ONE”, and they won’t feel lonely anymore.

When two people are in the same circle of love called “Destiny”, they fall in love. They found their soul mate and finally got married. Thus life will be changing to the next step of relationships which is “marriage”. See what will happen after marriage? Now, when we came up with the topic of Honeymoon, we thought this would be an exciting and luscious issue on how honeymoon can keep passion and relationships alive. Is this for real? Come discover with us… newlyweds… read on…

Wedding bell is ringing. Wedding song is sweet and melodious. Two hearts are linked together. Once you say “I do”, your life is going to be wrapped up with the word of “marriage”. Then once you step in, you can’t look back. This is concerning about life, love, relationships and family, and “honeymoon” is a part of them as the celebration of LOVE as well as a new beginning of life. For newlyweds, they might feel nervous because this is likely a new experience… this is true when there is lots of excitement during the honeymoon trip. Excitement begins since they start an engine and drive away after the wedding. It is the first and good start how to keep love and passion alive and still on for each other. Their honeymoon can be the most perfect moment ever. For those who wait, like one year gone, the desire and passion is probably less excited even when they start their trip. However, once honeymoon time comes, you can taste the best of it to keep passion and relationships excited and alive, but how? We discover that there are some typical and ideal recommendations you might adapt to your honeymoon experience…

  1. Pick the best honeymoon spots of your dream. Hawaii? Bali? Phuket? Europe? Caribbean? Alaska? The best place means the best moment; it’s probably half true depending on what types of trip you are looking for. Best of all is to build up the feeling and emotion of love. Like if you go on Alaskan Cruise with the super cold weather, you can keep each other warm.

  1. Prepare a trip and pack up your luggage. Remember this is your romantic trip, not just like “swinging” fun one. When we are talking about keeping passion and relationships “excited and alive” (stress on these two words), but don’t ever think on adventure theme like cycling trip. This is not about exercise or game. Who are going to be crazy cycling for a honeymoon trip across the country? Absolutely, it serves you guys with an excitement but at the end exhausted to death. Easier booking flight through airlines or travel agents. Do not forget accommodations, make sure the hotels good and clean. More importantly, pack up everything you need for the trip.

  1. Once you are there, add as much as honey as you can during the conversation and feeling. It is not like sipping a cup of honey to start sweet talking, your heart will go on and your brain is swirling around. We are not considering honey as a kind of marijuana or weed. Honey is more than that in the way of its sweetness. As mentioned, you can taste the real honey, but in this case, forget about it. Real taste doesn’t make you feel sweet and nice in your talking. Try to think what the best word you can express to each other. Be aware of getting the whole conversation too greasy.

  1. Push up more honeymoon activities. Gear up and accelerate your energy with lots of fun activities and fill up more romance during the trip. “Diving”, even snorkeling or scuba is one example of fun sport activities. Hold your love’s hand and dive in the sea to find the beautiful nature of underwater together. Out of the world much more fun when you go on a helicopter tour to check out the beauty of the world, recommendation should be during the night time. After the sun falls and the moon rises up, the evening starts with splendid atmosphere. It is time to chill out under the candle light. Dance in the rhythm of classical and soft music and then deepen passion while kissing under the moonlight.

  1. Keep on your romance in the room. Don’t think too much. We aren’t leading you to a sexual issue much, as that is your personal after the wedding. Then the evening is over, and it is bed time. Carry your bride to the room (overweight bride had better carry groom instead). Close the doors and SURPRISE her with the decoration in the room like flower bunches all over the place and sprinkle rose’s leaves on bed (be careful if she is allergic to pollen. Sneezing!). Next is your private time…… we’d better off now.

These guides are just an ideal for honeymoon trip to keep your passion and relationships alive, we believe it does happen in reality of some couples, not just an imaginary or a dream. It might be a dream for those who are still single, but once they found Mr./Ms. Right, it won’t anymore. Yet, remember the most essential part to keep strong relationships is treat and understand each other very well. Though honeymoon is over, it doesn’t mean “I’m over you”. Relationships should stay alive and on and happy ending forever.

Have you ever seen “Just Married” and “50 First Dates”? Two must-see movies are in the contrast story of honeymoon. In fact, “Just Married”, starring by Ashton Kutcher and Brittany Murphy, is a romantic movie but the story is concerning about the worst honeymoon with less understanding of each other. As for “50 First Dates”, it is not all about honeymoon but the story was set in Hawaii which is ranged as one of world’s top 10 honeymoon spots. Drew Barrymoore and Adam Sandler made the most romantic movie ever. We’d like to encourage you to go grab the movies yourself. Watch and enjoy the movie.

Then to assist you pick a perfect honeymoon spot, we did some research from the CNN’s website. We discovered the world’s 10 best honeymoon spots based on Modern Bride Magazine, updated June 8, 2005: 1. Hawaii 2. Italy 3. Tahiti 4. Anquilla 5. Fiji 6. St. Lucia 7. Mexico 8. St. Barths 9. Jamaica 10. France. Now, it is your choice and chance to make the most amazing honeymoon and keep passion and relationships excited and alive. This is also the moment that might happen once in a lifetime, especially for women, why don’t you make it as much impressive as possible?

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